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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 11:08

How does one succeed in life?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

That's it for today.

Why do men choose to marry a plain Jane woman over a pretty woman?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Is it possible for people who claim to be genuine and honest to actually not be? If so, why do they behave this way?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Why do people say African Americans act the way they do because they're poor, when the ones with money act the same?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Is it true that LGB should drop T?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Why do liberals refuse to define what a woman is and what does that mean for the future of feminism?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Do not set goals—set systems.

What I need from you?

Do women like men who have slept with many women?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Ask yourself:

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

There was this one weird Bollywood movie that was released in the 2000s. Amitabh Bachchan was starring with another actress and the story was about how the old guy (Amitabh Bachchan) fell in love with the young woman. What is the name of this movie?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why would calling me an incel help anything? How does that solve anything? Why can’t you actually be helpful and offer productive honest advice?

Making more friends is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What bait should you use for ocean fishing?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

What was your most embarrassing and humiliating bare bottom spanking?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Does not procrastinate.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.